Marriage Advice from my Mom

Last night my mom was in town for a meeting for work so she stopped by to have dinner with me. It was a wonderful time to catch up and chat about life. With her having two teenagers still at home and my busy schedule sometime it is hard to find time to chat for long periods of time. Tonight we got a whole three hours worth! :)

Before she left I had to ask, “What marriage advice do you have for me?” She gave a little laugh and made some comment about not being the one to give marriage advice. She then added, “Make a financial plan that you and your spouse agree on. ….before the age of 44!”

Simple enough it seems! I let her know we had actually been talking about it a lot lately. Although we have a plan that is working great for us right now we wanted to start looking a little more long term and make sure we were doing the best things with our money rather than just good things.

During our search for information and finding a financial adviser we found a few cool things that we wanted to share with you!

Drive Free Cars for Live! Actually watch the whole video!

See your Money Future: Plug in some of your current numbers and see what your future holds!

Family Budget Sheet: Compare your budget with what you are actually spending.

If you and your spouse are looking into budgeting and becoming debt free we recommend taking a look at Dave Ramsey’s philosophies and programs!

What is something you and your spouse do to help stay on budget?

Saving Money….Some Things Just are Not Worth It!

Ryan and I are always making sure we think about how we can save money in small ways that add up. We also keep our latte factors in check as well.

One area that we spend a lot of money on is groceries. We purchase everything we need for the week in one bulk trip. We eat breakfast bowls and granola for breakfast, our lunch is leftover dinner from the night before and we cook dinner each night. Our grocery list also includes our snacks. There are a few ways that I try to help us save in this area, but I have not tried to do anything too extreme. I use a few coupons, buy in bulk, and use “off brand” items on some things.

A few weeks back I realized Walmart sales the fish we buy  in bulk. We eat Salmon and Swai each week. Instead of getting the smaller packs for each week I decided to get the larger packs that would last 2 or 3 weeks. They stay in the freezer so they would stay fresh and saved us a few bucks. Killer of a deal right?! Well I thought so!

Swai worked out great. Bigger pieces, but we just cut them and then were ready to go. Salmon on the other hand…. we pulled it out to cook it and it had skin on one side! First off the sight of it just made me want to quiver. Ryan assured me it just peels off and then it’s ready to be eaten. I told him that I don’t go cooking our chicken and turkey with their feathers on to eat around- they shouldn’t do that with fish. He found that pretty hilarious.

We cooked the Salmon on up. And then we picked our way around the skin…. not a big fan! If you didn’t do it just right it was slimy and the pile of fish skin on our plates was unappetizing! Needless to say Ryan and I decided we would go back to our small pack of Salmon which was all skinless. In this case saving those few bucks are not worth it to us! Pick your battles!

What are some ways you save on groceries that ARE worth it?

Newlywed Financial Advice

Finances are one area that newlyweds tend to struggle with after their marriage. Some people have no debt, others have a lot, and maybe even both have some debt. Ryan had worked hard to be debt free and with him being a few years older than I he did not have any student loans. I, however, graduated college after Ryan and I met, but also had to purchase a new car (I was still driving the one I bought when I was 15!). After we got married we also purchased a house. Our finances are a bit different now than when we both were single.

Luckily for us (one of the things that drew us to each other) we both are pretty frugal with money. We buy things we need and sometimes the things we want, but we both tend to sit on or research our purchases first. So far finances have not been an issue or argument for us that so many have said they have had with their spouse.

With that all being said Ryan and I still try to make good decisions with our money. Ryan introduced me to a concept that he had learned from David Bach called the “latte factor”. The latte factor is referring to something you send money on each day, or regularly, that is wasting money yet you don’t think about it because it is typically a small amount. For instance: you stop by Starbucks to grab a latte every morning on your way to work  for $4 (and that is probably the small one!). Four bucks may not seem like a lot, but that is 20 bucks in a week or $80 a month. Eighty dollars for lattes?! And that doesn’t even include the weekends.

Not everyone grabs a latte in the morning, but most people have something. Chew gum? Drink soda? Vending machine snack? Cigarettes? These all could be your latte factor. So what does the latte factor have to do with newlywed finances? Well once you find out what your latte factor is you can then role that money over to paying off debt, saving or investing- whatever you and your spouses goal is.

To find out what your latte factor is you will need to record EVERYTHING you spend money on for a few days. This means cash, check, and credit. ANYTHING that is purchased write it down. Here is a tracking sheet to help you out! For those of you that are a bit more frugal you may need to keep track a bit longer. Over time you will find something!

A few examples of things that could be latte factors for Ryan and I:

- We have new trash service which you can choose what size can to use. Smaller the can equals the smaller monthly payment. Now that  recycling is included we could probably opt for a smaller can. Saves $3 each month. Save $36 in a year. Seems pretty small, but why not save $36 dollars.

- Something on a little larger of a scale. I love me some Lush Cosmetics! I order a few times (probably 3) a year. I would spend about a hundred bucks with shipping and such. However, after doing some investigating I found some other products that I like (almost) just as much for half the price! So $300 down to $150 (or less!) in a year.

Lets go back to the actual latte example. $80 a month times 12 = $960 a year ON COFFEE!!! I know from year to year I am looking for a raise and to think you could save almost a thousand dollars by skipping your coffee! Alright, alright enough about coffee and lattes.

If you and your spouse are looking for ways to save or pay off debt take this newlywed financial advice and look into your latte factor! Track your spending with this worksheet. Then, calculate just how much you could be saving yourself with the latte factor calculator. Next, start putting that saved money where you really want it to be going!

Leave a comment below telling what you think your latte factor might be!

Save Money on Furniture as Newlyweds

After we got married we moved from a 400 square foot, one bedroom apartment to our new home we purchased that is three bedrooms and quite larger. Needless to say we had some extra room in the new house. We really did not want to spend a lot of money up front (I mean, come on, we just bought a house) so we thought of ways to save money on furniture.

My parents were also moving so they gave us a love seat and Ryan’s dad had a couch that he gave us. We decided to purchase a couch cover as the couch did not match anything. Instead of buying two new couches we purchased a cover for one with a gift card we had received as a wedding gift. Money out of our pocket: $0.00.

In the apartment we had an island and now in the house we have a huge dinning room. We needed to locate a table! Ryan’s grandma had several tables so she gave us one. Someone in Ryan’s family actually hand crafted this table! Pretty awesome! Now we needed chairs! Ryan’s dad had 4 old chairs he said we could have and Ryan’s grandpa found two chairs in the trash- so….we took all 6.

I have been meaning to reupolsture all of these chairs since Christmas (see picture above). However, I just got around to it.  So for our dinning room set money out of our pockets: $9.50 for fabric.

Instead of buying new furniture all at one time pull your sources. You never know who has what sitting around or in storage that may be willing to pass it on to you! Plus garage sales! Reupolsturing is easy here is how you do it!

1) Take cushion off chair. When getting chairs make sure they are easy to take apart and put back together.

2) Measure out fabric. When choosing fabric choose from those in the upholstery section. Also, think about cleaning.

3) Staple fabric on to chair, then do the opposite side after pulling fabric tight.

 

 4) Repeat step 3 on other two sides. Then, cut extra fabric off and put cushion back onto the chair.

And you are done!

Leave a comment below sharing your ideas on saving money on furniture!